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KSena ([personal profile] kseenaa) wrote2016-03-14 11:41 am

Friends cut out of necessity...

Remember that friending meme I joined in? Well, it worked a bit to well. I am so overwhelmed and I can not for the life of me keep up with my suddenly very active friends list.

It has started to effect my professional work and my sleeping, and that's just... not OK. :-/

I do feel somewhat bad about doing this, but I feel I don't have much choice.

If any of you lot that found me thanks to said meme feel you need to unfriend me, you are of course free to do so. :-) I've always been very open minded about everything including that. I'm an open book about nearly everything as well, nothing is friendslocked here so if you wanna stick around, you are of course free to do that to.

These few days have been mind blowing and amazing despite the stress. Just... wow.

To those I cut of my friendslist, GOOD LUCK WITH LIFE AND EVERYTHING! It's been amazing to see you and know you! *bow*

Edit: Went from 120 people on my flist to 109. Not a huge cut, and quite a few are inactive. So I think I can manage now. I hope at least. *crosses fingers*

This entry is crossposted between LJ and DW. Comment where you are comfortable.

[identity profile] thenewbuzwuzz.livejournal.com 2016-03-14 11:12 am (UTC)(link)
Well, the freedom to unfriend *was* part of the meme's rules.
Take care of yourself.

[identity profile] kseenaa.livejournal.com 2016-03-14 04:43 pm (UTC)(link)
This is very true. :-) And you're one of those I kept, so... :-)

[identity profile] snogged.livejournal.com 2016-03-14 12:21 pm (UTC)(link)
I know what you mean about feeling overwhelmed, but it is settling down a little.
It appears you decided to keep me around. I look forward to getting to know you better.

[identity profile] kseenaa.livejournal.com 2016-03-14 04:43 pm (UTC)(link)
It is settling down, so true. But it still was just a bit to much than I could chew, you know? :-P And I didn't cut that many in the end. Just enough so I can keep up. :-)

[identity profile] 1-rhiannon-1.livejournal.com 2016-03-14 12:33 pm (UTC)(link)
I'm sorry to see you go but I get it.
I wish you the best in everything!

[identity profile] kseenaa.livejournal.com 2016-03-14 04:44 pm (UTC)(link)
I'm glad you understand. :-) All the best in the future to you to!!!

[identity profile] slaymesoftly.livejournal.com 2016-03-14 01:56 pm (UTC)(link)
*nods* that sudden jump in new "friends" has meant a lot more time spent on LJ than I have been accustomed to these past few years. It remains to be seen if I will be able to keep it up.

[identity profile] kseenaa.livejournal.com 2016-03-14 04:44 pm (UTC)(link)
Oh, I agree! I had planned to spend more time here, but not so much time I can't sleep or work. X-D I think I've gotten it to a manageable level now though. :-)

[identity profile] volare.livejournal.com 2016-03-14 03:02 pm (UTC)(link)
💜

[identity profile] kseenaa.livejournal.com 2016-03-14 04:45 pm (UTC)(link)
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[identity profile] velvetwhip.livejournal.com 2016-03-14 05:12 pm (UTC)(link)
I know how you feel. Hope you don't mind if I stay... unless you'd like to cut me, which is absolutely your right.


Gabrielle

[identity profile] kseenaa.livejournal.com 2016-03-14 08:50 pm (UTC)(link)
I kept you. ;-) Seems like most people get where I'm coming from though, which feels good. :-)

[identity profile] lycoris.livejournal.com 2016-03-14 06:02 pm (UTC)(link)
It is pretty amazing, isn't it - I haven't seen anything like it for years! Sorry it's been too overwhelming for you but yeah, you should always do what's best for you (and thank you for keeping me. :) )

[identity profile] kseenaa.livejournal.com 2016-03-14 08:51 pm (UTC)(link)
Amazing and absolutely batshit crazy! X-D It's true. LJ hasn't been active in ages! I think I've gotten my f-list down to a manageable level now, so... Fingers crossed I'll be able to keep up! :-D

[identity profile] orangerful.livejournal.com 2016-03-14 10:32 pm (UTC)(link)
LJ should not be interfering with your ability to go about daily life, definitely weed the list down if it causes you any kind of stress!

[identity profile] kseenaa.livejournal.com 2016-03-15 02:12 pm (UTC)(link)
Yeah, that was what I was thinking to. Hence cutting down a bit on the friendslist. It's manageable now, i believe so... :-) Rock on and all that!

[identity profile] badfalcon.livejournal.com 2016-03-14 10:43 pm (UTC)(link)
Having that much of an impact is definitely not of the good :( I'm feeling a little glad I was away while a lot of the insanity was happening. I'm slowly catching up now though and WOW!

[identity profile] kseenaa.livejournal.com 2016-03-15 02:12 pm (UTC)(link)
Might be a good idea to be good when things go crazy. *LOL* It really really was there for a while. :-) It has simmered down now though, so I can keep up with my weeded f-list, I believe. ;-)

[identity profile] brunettepet.livejournal.com 2016-03-15 02:52 am (UTC)(link)
LJ has been so quiet is has been overwhelming having a flist that takes a while to get through. It will just take some getting used to.

[identity profile] kseenaa.livejournal.com 2016-03-15 02:13 pm (UTC)(link)
Yeah, that was what I was feeling to. And wondering to myself where all these people have been previously? X-D *lol*

[identity profile] aatln.livejournal.com 2016-03-15 08:51 am (UTC)(link)
I have no idea how to check if we're still friends, lol. You've been on my friends list for so long it seems like I know you even though I spend very little time on LJ these days. It's ok if I've been cut - I do understand the need to give yourself a breather and I wish you and your lovely family well in your future endeavors.

Giggles, I can't believe I've been checking my livejournal for 10+ years! Whoa! 30 to 40 - now there's a feat. Good luck, KSena! Unless you're still on my friends list, then I must say yay! lol.
Edited 2016-03-15 08:55 (UTC)

[identity profile] kseenaa.livejournal.com 2016-03-15 02:14 pm (UTC)(link)
I don't think I have listed you as a friend! o.O Although you do frequently sneak around both here and on [livejournal.com profile] gs_daily! :-D So I think that's where we've seen each other. :-D

[identity profile] aatln.livejournal.com 2016-03-18 07:16 am (UTC)(link)
Ah yes, gs_daily is where I find my TH fix and I may have been following Mini-Viking too. Cool, I will continue to 'see' you with the G's. :)

I'm a silent one lol.
Edited 2016-03-18 07:17 (UTC)

[identity profile] kseenaa.livejournal.com 2016-03-18 10:31 am (UTC)(link)
G's Daily is a good place to go for a fix. :-) And hey, the twins feature to, even if the G's are the main focus. ;-)

Nothing wrong with being silent. ;-) I'm quite random instead. That works to! :-D

[identity profile] dancingdragon3.livejournal.com 2016-03-15 04:26 pm (UTC)(link)
Thank you for keeping me! It's been overwhelming for me, too. I always wanted a lot of friends, but dang, I didn't realize other people posted so often, lol. Seeing all those new notices freaks me out a little cause I tend towards performance anxiety.

Hope your day goes better!

[identity profile] kseenaa.livejournal.com 2016-03-16 02:57 pm (UTC)(link)
I think it's been damn overwhelming for everyone! I can't even remember a friending meme that has been this successful. :-)

[identity profile] ruchirahni.livejournal.com 2016-03-22 08:11 pm (UTC)(link)
it's nice to know someone long enough to know that you'll never be unfriended. :) <3

[identity profile] kseenaa.livejournal.com 2016-03-30 01:18 pm (UTC)(link)
True. :-) I'm afraid you're stuck with me. ;-)