Jon is extremely mopey, agreed. I think that's his default, to be honest. As you say, I don't mind the incest angle (hello Cersie and Jamie), but it's the lack of chemistry. Of interest from both Jon and Dany. They just don't work in my mind. :-P Oh well, we'll see I suppose. I suspect the show IS going to go in that direction though. :-P
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