I don't do a lot of selfies either. :-P I have an Instagram, but I mostly post photos of my daughter on it. And random things that happens during the day. Not so many photos of myself.

Your mom should get a newsflash really... Just because you are fat do NOT mean you are unhealthy!

It's though really this thing with thin people, since they have the look that society wants. I know a few thin people and they are sick and tired of hearing how great they look, when all they try to do is gain weight, since they are TO thin at times. :-/ Society is a bit fucked up sometimes, ain't it?