*nod nod* I'm not actually involved in the fandom where this all originally started either. I sort of tripped over it because of a mention by someone else on my flist, and got curious. But that was before the worst of it broke out, and as I was following links trying to figure out just what exactly had happened, that's when I started hitting so much victim blaming. Some of it was absolutely horrific. Like stomach-churning terrible, especially since I've been in the position of being blamed for being abused. So it was really nice to see Stoney's post.
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