F list? Is that Friends list? Great, I don't mind :). thx

I think with older fans we do let them be people, if we met them, we would respect their space, n maybe if the opportuity should come up, sleep with them. As for me, I really don't think I would because if he was great, I would want more, that's not going to happen, so why set up myself to be hurt? I rather doubt that would ever happen with all the lil fans running around

Yes u were making perfect sense and I agree with u :)