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I am still somewhat upset over the mass-move to DW (or the claimed mass-move), but I guess I'll live. I have my DW account, so I can read whatever you are posting if you stop posting here. I don't wanna lose anyone of you.
Anyhow.
Today me and Alexandra were on our first parenting group at the Child Welfare Center. I don't know what to make of that, really... I mean, they have these all over the place with the purpose of parents meeting up, creating bonds so they'll have other parents to talk to etc... It is a good idea, but really... What? We have to work together just because we happen to have kids in about the same age?
Ehr... It didn't work out quite so well. :-/ All of them moms (and the one dad) that was there were really nice, but I didn't feel like I fit in with my green + skulls nails and me and Alexandra in our cool band t-shirts/onesie. Just, yeah. All the others were so very... mommy/pink/girlie/babyblue/boyish... Manly it was me and the dad and his wife talking a bit. We were in the middle of the table, and the moms on each end of the table created lil groups all by them lonesomes, and even though I tried! It was near to impossible to get into their discussions. :-P And I did try, being my most polite sweet self! (I can be polite and sweet if I want to!)
It almost felt like I was doing Alexandra a disservice by being myself and who I am and not change to be a classical pink mom...? *head-desk* Silly thoughts, yeah, but sometimes I wonder... :-P
I've even started to consider taking Alexandra with me to the big apocalyptical LARP, Fallout, this summer... I've mentioned it to the GM's and to my friend whom I played closely with last summer... We'll see if it might work out. The LARP area is not far away, so we could be there during the day/evening and then go home and put Alexandra to bed at home, hence no need to sleep in the rough with a lil baby...
Plenty of time to consider this, and Alexandra will have grown a lot come summer, so... we'll see, we'll see...
Funnily at the start of this week, we had no plans what so ever this weekend... Now we have stuff to do both tomorrow (![[livejournal.com profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/external/lj-userinfo.gif)
peting73s cousin coming over) AND on Sunday (two LARP-friends coming to visit). All fun stuff, but yesterday when all plans were set I was all: LOL wut? What just happened? :-)
This entry is crossposted between LJ and DW. Comment where you are comfortable.
Anyhow.
Today me and Alexandra were on our first parenting group at the Child Welfare Center. I don't know what to make of that, really... I mean, they have these all over the place with the purpose of parents meeting up, creating bonds so they'll have other parents to talk to etc... It is a good idea, but really... What? We have to work together just because we happen to have kids in about the same age?
Ehr... It didn't work out quite so well. :-/ All of them moms (and the one dad) that was there were really nice, but I didn't feel like I fit in with my green + skulls nails and me and Alexandra in our cool band t-shirts/onesie. Just, yeah. All the others were so very... mommy/pink/girlie/babyblue/boyish... Manly it was me and the dad and his wife talking a bit. We were in the middle of the table, and the moms on each end of the table created lil groups all by them lonesomes, and even though I tried! It was near to impossible to get into their discussions. :-P And I did try, being my most polite sweet self! (I can be polite and sweet if I want to!)
It almost felt like I was doing Alexandra a disservice by being myself and who I am and not change to be a classical pink mom...? *head-desk* Silly thoughts, yeah, but sometimes I wonder... :-P
I've even started to consider taking Alexandra with me to the big apocalyptical LARP, Fallout, this summer... I've mentioned it to the GM's and to my friend whom I played closely with last summer... We'll see if it might work out. The LARP area is not far away, so we could be there during the day/evening and then go home and put Alexandra to bed at home, hence no need to sleep in the rough with a lil baby...
Plenty of time to consider this, and Alexandra will have grown a lot come summer, so... we'll see, we'll see...
Funnily at the start of this week, we had no plans what so ever this weekend... Now we have stuff to do both tomorrow (
peting73s cousin coming over) AND on Sunday (two LARP-friends coming to visit). All fun stuff, but yesterday when all plans were set I was all: LOL wut? What just happened? :-)This entry is crossposted between LJ and DW. Comment where you are comfortable.
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